The Day I Introduced Myself Without Saying My Name

I tried to go live today from the edge of Belfast Lough, but the signal had other plans.
Still, I recorded something I knew I had to share—because this moment isn’t just important, it’s personal.

A few years ago, after my role as a caregiver had ended, I went to a small party.
I introduced myself not as Carolyn.
Not as a woman with a full life and a full heart.
I introduced myself as “the relative of the person I cared for.”

And as soon as I heard those words come out of my mouth, I thought:
"Houston, you have a serious problem."

I had lost myself. Completely.
And what scared me most was—I didn’t even notice it had happened until that moment.

That realization was the seed of something I would later create:
The Simple Life Audit.

It’s not coaching.
It’s not advice.
It’s not about fixing you—because you’re not broken.

It’s about coming back to yourself.

Today, I’m opening just two private spots for a premium version of this experience.
This is for the woman who is done drifting. Who knows there’s more to life than just “holding it together.”
Who’s ready to reframe, reimagine, and reclaim her own story.